Saturday 18 September 2010

PRIDE OR PLAY ......

#okhello
As I laid on ma bed tryin to decipher the lesson(s) I had learnt today, I began to worry and question my moral status. My line of study (law mhen na so so book book smh God dey) requires I keep a clean slate nd be an epitome of moral embodiment. But that was not reason for worry this night!
I just finished reading a novel by Martina Cole (the runaway). The message of the book stirred up mixed feelings!
My generation's moral canon is slowly rapidly(oxymoron by d way lol) being emptied down my toilet(errm I can't remebr d lit xpression nw). One of d most discussed topics both n d most fascinating and dreaded manner is SEX!
I carried out a survey on my campus (both boys nd gals) asking opinions on premarital sex! I got fascinating answers! Usually, I ask d guys *what's ur take on pre marital sex?* 40% said its for fun nd can b done with any girl (agro na bastard lol). Anoda 40% sed for fun but with one partner. 10% said its for intimacy and understanding and has to be with mutual consent! 5 percent said they do it to mature and my last 5 percent said abstainance (didn't bliv tho). WOW only 5percent are still on the old molly principle!
I asked the girls the same question! Interestingly, the stat was different only 5 percent still believe in d theme of virginity. 20 per cent said for intimacy with their partners while 50 percent says its for fun and to relax the muscles! 5 per cent said to get what they want and it was a tool(some implied)! 5 percent said lose it then abstain!
Wow! (Let's bring a lil bit of God into dis) the bible said sex is a tool for intimacy between TWO MARRIED PEOPLE OF DIFFERENT SEX the law and God(I know some people would argue with the phrase *Even in d bible*)
Let's ponder on the above analysis give ur comments let's argue let's see if my stat is right or wrong.
Den we wld move 2 ma view Pride or play pt 2
Pls comment (fnks)
#okbye

Thursday 16 September 2010

ITS SO PROUD......AND DOES NOT KNOW YOU EXIST

OKHELLO...
As I stumbled out of my nightwear getting into the shower, I looked up on the wall and saw that big round thing staring at me indicating and pointing out the obvious that I was going to have a busy day. I cursed under breathe as I lined my toothbrush with my paste "Arrogant bastard, can't you just chill a little for me". No matter how much I cursed him, he seemed so unmoved (on twitter i would say KMT).
I turned on the shower miserably, I tried to seek comfort in the coolness of the water and stay oblivious of its presence, but it wasnt working. I knew from the moment I refused to acknowledge its presence I was in trouble.
As I stepped out into the world, I saw everyone working with it. They seemed to talk about it all the time. No wonder he was so proud. I decided this very day I was going to ignore it. But little did I know it didnt even know me.
I was so clumsy today that at the end of this very day, the only thing I have achieved is typing you this message so you dont make the same mistake I made today. My day was completely fruitless, non productive, hectic and clumsy.
I got home today and realised how important this "it" was and it was still staring at me in the face saying "work with me". Many times, I tried manipulating it to my work with me but he came anti clockwise like a bad karma to strike me. So I just try to beat it to its game rather than actually beat it to it. It works better for me that way.
TIME my people is this "it" am complaining about. It doesn't work with you, you work with it. If you dont work with it you would lose out in this world's journey pretty much. The annoying thing is that you can never hoard it, its not like the money we make and spend, we cant own it literally. That is why we have coined phrases out of it "work with time" "time waits for no one""time is money" etc.
As I retire to my bed tonight, I understood perfectly the phrase TIME WAITS FOR NO ONE the sooner you realise this the better for you...........
OKBYE